Hello, StrayaGaming Community.
Have you ever attempted to apply for anything, and for various reasons you have been denied? Recently I was denied of an application because of my Personality and how I communicate with the Community and wasn't able to explain or elaborate on decisions I have made. Not giving me a chance to prove my abilities, and denied of something that maybe I can't change or that a disorder is keeping me from changing. I feel that the reason I was denied of can’t be changed because people have enjoyed my personality and some even find it interesting. When you are been asked to change your personality; which is a major thing to do. Just to be accepted into a virtual team, just isn’t really good enough.
I'm not writing this so you all feel sorry for me. I'm writing this to try and get my point across to everyone in the community that has been pushed away because of who you truly are. So let's carry on, With the person not knowing my actual personality, I feel as if I was misjudged and that I wasn’t given a chance to change or even show them what my best abilities are. I was denied without an explanation of what is “Bad” or “Unsuitable” about my personality. (Yes this is a support Application) for some people, it may be easy to just “change” their entire personality, but for others, it is based on the people around you or how you grow up; the people you grow up with and etc. Including not knowing what is good or bad about your personality can be extremely frustrating and confusing.
With my application been posted around a month ago, I feel that it is unfair and that Higher ups are sometimes biased towards who they are accepting, based on opinion, not fact. I have talents that others do not have and of course, others have talents that I do not have. Most of the higher up staff who are to accept/deny these applications don’t truly know what I'm capable of and yet they still attempt to judge me on my past and not look into the fact that I have matured and made different choices over the years, they also have the audacity to tell me that my personality is terrible or unsuitable when they haven’t even given me a chance or got to know me well.
In conclusion, I just believe that if it is based on history or personalities if the staff are not certain about it, they should at least give them a chance or try and prove themselves. I understand it is completely fair if people are denied for things such as having low confidence or are not suitable in any of that matter, but been straight up denied for having an unsuitable personality is just rubbish.
Thank You for reading this if this has ever happened to you please comment down below like I said I'm not aiming for sympathy I just want to get my point across and if you think that I’m taking this too far or having a sook than you're wrong.